Dating outside your race
She explained her reasoning to VIBE: Of all groups of people, Black women are the least likely group of women that will date outside of their race. And 9 chances out of 10, that man didn’t even give a f*** He couldn’t even tell that you had a pimple that day or that your hair wasn’t done. And the men that do that are really paying attention that hard to your ass or t******or exterior stuff, that’s probably not the best person for you anyway.
When you have everyone else who is willing to explore, a Black woman is like, “I want me a brother.” Well, if the brothers are out and they’re open to date everybody and the majority of Black women aren’t willing to look twice when a man outside of their race is sending them messages, then that makes our percentage rate lower and the chances of finding love, because we’re only looking in one specific place—with Black men. One of my friends was asking me if I would set him up with one of my friends and I asked him, “What do you like in a woman?
Is this because most people picture their future from an early age and mixing it up doesn’t quite sit right?
I’m so sick of the “you’re really attractive, why are you single” comments because I don’t KNOW why I’m single.
But all the other friends of mine, it’s either they vocally say that they won’t or every time an opportunity comes up for them to date outside of their race, there’s some excuse why it’s not going to work. My sister gets men to commit but you wanna see the state of them – I have higher standards!I’ve spoken to my guy friends (all Caucasian) and their feedback is: it’s rare that they meet black women (let alone attractive ones) and while they’d date one, they would never settle down and have children!If I’m lucky, they’ll date me briefly, but it’s purely about the sex! I’m 36 and have slept with under 10.) I’m extremely fussy who I “put out” for.
I’m on two dating sites: e Harmony and Match Affinity – both USELESS.If you've never dated anyone outside your race before if you met someone you really clicked with would you?